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Some Things Take TIme

07 Monday Oct 2013

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cleaning out, family, home, house projects, Life, Patience, Time

Some Things Take TIme

Today I am struggling with the fact that some things take time. I wish I could wave a wand and just have things done but well I know life just doesn’t work that way. It is hard to just keep putting things off sometimes because life, family, and other things take priority. Yes I have to daily change how things stack up. I would love to just say some days nope I am just doing things my way and sticking to it but I just can’t be that selfish. It is hard for me to just sometimes sit back and let things happen.

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Good Night

04 Friday Oct 2013

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Good Night

Good Night

((YAWN)) Good night sweet friends! It’s been a long busy day getting ready for a great weekend!!!

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People Pleaser

04 Friday Oct 2013

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counseling, People, recovering

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I admit it finally after years, finally recognizing it, and counseling that I am a people pleaser. This is something that is a hard thing for me some days to wrap my head around. You see I see myself a a strong person a fighter one that can handle things on my own.  So why do I need people to be happy with me and what I do?

Well for me this is a big issue.  I am really concerned what people think of almost all that I do, look like, and everything.  So this makes me try my best at everything.  I guess I have always been like this.  I can look back to even in High School and I thank my lucky stars my dad was a teacher because I could use his closet in his room and not my locker.  I would bring extra outfits to school because I didn’t know if I was wearing the right thing.  I wanted to be in fashion, have the right style, color, something that someone else wasn’t wearing, whatever it was.  I don’t know why I just wanted to be prepared.

I do this with my cooking and taking care of my home and family too.  Some days I work really hard at all these things so that I do so good at them but really I just want to make everyone happy.  I could be hurt, sick, tired but that would not matter because I have to please everyone.  I am always thinking and looking out for everyone in my life.

I know this is an issue for me and well I am trying to let go and work on this.  It is hard for me.  It is hard to feel like I am letting someone down or not pulling my weight.  I know this isn’t a bad thing and that I need to think of myself for once in my life.  I never have but I think it is time to learn.

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Fear of What Other’s Think

04 Friday Oct 2013

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Fear, pre-judging, Think

Fear of What Other's Think

Many of us live with this fear daily. No matter if it is from looking at pictures, magazines, the internet, sitting at the local coffee shop, taking your kids to school. We all face feeling not perfect. Even the people we think have the most beautiful bodies the most perfect skin, the people who workout everyday even these people have flaws. They can have things airbrushed out.

If we put ourselves in a prison each day and have fear of what others think of us we are pre-judging others before we give them a chance to even get to know us some times. People are free to love you for being you. It should not matter what shape, color of your skin, how tall, how short you are. You should just learn to realize that deep down you are an amazing person.

People that put up these walls and don’t take the time to get to know people because of these fears, people who live in these prisons, people who think that we all are not loved unless we are airbrushed well then you are missing out on some of the most amazing relationships with others.

Take the time to let your guard down and don’t fear what others think of you. Let your love for others shine through. When you do the love of Christ will shine.

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Learned Plenty of Lessons

04 Friday Oct 2013

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Everyone's Story, Gossip, Hurt, Judging, Life Lessons, Loss, Opening up

This is an all true reality of how things are for me in my life. I know everyone has a story but for me it is really hard for me to open up about things because I have been hurt. Yes by people who have told stories about me, my husband, my family. Yes people who have shared things about me that aren’t true or have said things out of spite or out of context. Also, I have just been hurt by things that have just happened to me and I am scared to share. I don’t want to be judged. I don’t want people I guess to know the real me and walk away. People are so hard on people and I don’t want the things in my life that I have lived through and going through to be even more painful because I decide to open my heart and share with someone. The thought of that pain just isn’t worth it to me some days. I have already lost to many people in my life I don’t want to lose anymore because of things I decide to share.

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Love Ourselves

04 Friday Oct 2013

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counseling, Friendships, Groups, Judging, Love, Prayer, Relationships

These days I have been thinking can what can we do or what is the best thing to love ourselves or others?  If we actually love ourselves, first we would feel the need to not judge, compare, or criticize others.  How often do you feel or hear of someone being mean to someone else?  How often do you say ” Well, it’s just because they are insecure” or ” They may be intimidated by you”?  Well I think this or hear this from my husband all the time.  Really it is hard to hear or think these things when you know that others do these things to others everyday.  We give these answers to help give perspective and to try to help make us feel better or to make us feel right about a situation.  

 I have to ask myself everyday would a woman who is loved and who God made her to be treat others in a mean way?  Probably not. I feel that just like Christ’s example that we are not suppose to leave others out, make them feel bad, that there is no need to make yourself feel better than someone else.  I feel that we are to love others no matter what their shape, size, color, disability, or anything.  We are to love all because we were all made in Christ’s image.  

The sad reality to life is that we don’t do this. People don’t follow this and they do judge others. This really hurts people and is a huge reason that we don’t have many close relationships or trust people. When we can’t love ourselves and love others as Christ loved us then we are not following his word.  When we don’t we hurt the ones we want in our lives, the ones we have in our lives, and the ones we love.  

So, I think we should do whatever work we need to do, counseling, support groups, time in prayer, to figure out how to accept and love ourselves as the beautifully unique women God has made us to be. When we put God as the center of our lives and follow his example we will start to learn to love others and ourselves.  

Issy Grad in Boston

26 Friday Apr 2013

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Need some inspiration? 

Here you go >>> http://kiro.tv/11x5rXM

Woman who lost foot in Boston terror attack says she will dance again

BOSTON — 
Adrianne Haslet-Davis, who grew up in Issaquah, is still in a Boston hospital, but she has an amazing attitude about the terrible explosion that ripped her life apart.

“I remember everything,” Haslet-Davis said from her hospital bed.

She was with her husband, Air Force Capt. Adam Davis, who was just back from Afghanistan.

“I remember the first bomb going off, and holding on to Adam, my husband, and thinking, ‘Oh my gosh, there’s never just one,'” Haslet-Davis said.

Haslet-Davis graduated in 1998 from Issaquah High School. The couple live in Boston now.

Last Monday was her day off from her job as a dance instructor. The couple were at the finish line to watch the end of the Boston Marathon.

“I started screaming, ‘Oh no, oh no,” and then the second bomb went off and it went off directly in front of us,” Haslet-Davis said.

Both she and her husband were hit.

“I remember falling backwards, because of the impact, and falling into sort of a pretzel, and then up with Adam and waking up, and thinking I was going to be OK, because I didn’t feel any pain,” Haslet-Davis said.

In the mayhem, Davis used his belt to form a tourniquet to stop his wife’s bleeding. But the blast destroyed nearly every bone and muscle in her left ankle and foot, and both had to be amputated.

Haslet-Davis, who is a dancer, insisted that the injury won’t stop her from dancing again. In fact, she said she plans to run the Boston Marathon next year.

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02 Friday Mar 2012

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Beef Tenderloin

22 Thursday Dec 2011

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  • Place tenderloins in metal baking pan.
  • Cover in melted butter
  • Sprinkle with lemon pepper
  • Sprinkle with crushed pepper
  • Sprinkle some salt
  • Grill til med
  • Serve

Making a difference

25 Monday Jul 2011

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I was blessed in my life to have a loving example in my life, my dad, to show me that just being yourself can make a difference in others lives. But well where he was an amazing man and loved by many I have of course been placed on my own path of life. Sometimes I may not have known what or where that path would lead me or take me but I was on it and along for the ride. I have met so many wonderful friends and people in my life. I have tried things, started things, helped in things…the list goes on.

But one thing that I know along this path of life is that no matter what I have been given a helping and caring heart. I have loved serving in our church as the Children’s Ministry Coordinator for 8 years. When we found a new church that ministry of course kept calling my name. So of course I jumped in and started helping there too. But it just didn’t stop there.

My husband and I have joined a non-profit group to help families and others that are in need. We just love it. We have raised money to help Toys for Tots after a fire. And it was amazing to see that in just 2 weeks that all the toys destroyed were replaced and even more given as well as enough money left over to help clean up and rebuild the building. We are also helping with other fund raisers and things to help raise money for other families too. It is wonderful to be apart of this.

But personally I have as well as my supportive husband we have stepped out to always in our lives to make a difference. We donate our time, help our friends and others in need, we donate our things that we don’t need to others that do. Some of my friends say that I would give the shirt off my back and well I probably would or have. But I have wanted to make a bigger difference sometimes. I know that helping people one at a time is huge. I know that it takes baby steps and that the ones that every little bit helps I know that. But I would some how like to do something small that reaches many.

In the past I have tried with my MaryKay, lemonade stands with my kids, asking for my friends and family to donate to a cause with and for me. And no one has helped me make a difference. And well it hurts my heart. I would like to know that what I love and what I do in my life today makes a difference. I would love to see my friends and family help me do something good and amazing for others. I don’t want to have to have something happen to me in my life or for me to go to be with the Lord for people to start to make a difference.

So I would love for you to help me help others by making a difference today. If you are interested ask me how you can. I am currently helping a couple families in need personally and it is hard on our family to do this alone. Also, with MaryKay if you have a party or order with me www.marykay.com/michelegrant I will donate to a charity each month. If you want to donate to www.bobnw.org we would love your support. Also, if you want to donate to Charity Water they help bring clean water to developing nations. http://www.mycharitywater.org/p/campaign?campaign_id=16396

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